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The Glorious Ripple Effect of Positive Thinking

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“A positive attitude causes a chain reaction of positive thoughts, events and outcomes. It is a catalyst and it sparks extraordinary results.” ~Wade Boggs 

Here is one line we hear way too often:

“Just think positive!”

I’ve heard it said in one way or another so many times. But what does thinking positive or having a positive attitude actually do for us?

It’s kind of like; when everyone says eat more greens, we know we should be eating more greens. You may even know how those nutrients keep you healthy, affect your weight, blood pressure and digestion and yet still don’t do it. It’s not until you really start to feel the difference for yourself and realize how much better it is that you REALLY start to order more salads and less deep fried stuff. Which also means, of course, that you have to start doing it, practicing it and being aware of the difference it makes before it becomes a real habit. Positive thinking works the same way.

Plug in a Positive Thought to begin the Glorious ripple effect!

This is actually what the Glorious ripple effect of Positive Thinking is all about– like a little tiny leaf that lands on a pond. You don’t think much of it, but if you watch how far the ripples go it’s pretty impressive. When we’re in a negative place, or even if we’re just having a bad day, we’re not going to be as aware of the opportunities surrounding us. We’re not going to be quite as aware of how we’re coming across to others. And when a problem arises we’re going to feel more stressed out and it will be more difficult to find a solution. But if we plug in a positive thought (our leaf on the pond), we can start shifting into a more positive space. We start realizing there’s more opportunity here than we thought. Our conversations with people are different. When you’re in a positive space people will be more willing to talk to you longer, so you end up having a better quality conversation. Those types of conversations can lead to a better relationship with that person or even to some great ideas. If a challenge does come up, you’re better at problem solving and creative thinking. It’s subtle at first so it can be a little difficult to pick up on, but you can become more aware of it.

Bad Day vs. Good Day

Let’s look at a typical ‘bad day’. Yes, yes we’ve all had them, those days where everything seems to go wrong. You get up late, drop your coffee on the way out, get every red light on the way to work, need to buy just ONE little item on the way home but there’s a line of ten people in front of you at the cashier… by the time you get home – you’re exhausted and so done with the day. You just want to go to bed. With everything that happened, you got grumpier as the day wore on. Who wouldn’t, right? I know I’ve done the same thing.

But…

If you notice, there is a way that our brain chemistry changes with our mood. When we get stressed out, upset or angry we go into a very basic sort of survival mode. The creative part of our brain just shuts down, adrenaline rises and the fight or flight mode kicks in to various degrees – which doesn’t leave room for higher, more complex thought. That’s right, being stressed or negative actually shuts down a part of our brain. And here’s the worse part…it’s the part of our brain that is critical to resolving the very things that are stressing us out!

Now, let’s take that same day from a new perspective – with a ‘leaf’ of positive thought or action. You still get up late, spill coffee and hit way too many red lights. But now you get to the point where you giggle. Yes, you just start laughing at yourself. Of course it starts out forced, but it’s just enough of a shift to make a difference. That laughter (even a forced or fake laugh) releases the endorphins in your brain. And guess what? You will start feeling better. It becomes a positive feedback loop that allows the creative centers of your brain to kick back in.

Why? Because where we focus our mood follows. I’m not insisting anyone look through the world with rose colored glasses. In fact, if you happen to own a pair of those things, please…throw them out! While rose is a beautiful flower and lovely color, when it comes to attitude…it’s more likely denial. I don’t want you to imagine you’ll never have a bad day. What I’m talking about is just giving yourself the gift of awareness so you can notice what you’re focusing on and, if appropriate, shift it.

Say you decide to buy a new car. You go down to the shop and happily cruise home in your new vehicle. On the way to the shop, the roads were filled with all kinds of cars, to the point that you may not have even noticed any particular make or model. Just another day on the road. But on the drive home you notice that EVERYONE seems to be driving the same model car as you…why didn’t you notice that before? Did all these people suddenly purchase the same car within the last hour? No, those cars were already on the road. You just weren’t noticing them until it became YOUR car and you had a reason to focus on that exact model. In other words, what you focus on you see more of – – positive or negative. Sometimes it’s a situation that focuses us – like buying a car – but you can choose what you focus on too.

Shifting your mindset can make a huge difference

Maybe you can’t laugh at the fact that you dropped your cup of coffee, but you can be grateful it didn’t splash all over your clothes. And you don’t have to let it drag you spiraling down into a grumpy mood. In other words, you may not be able to change the surrounding circumstances, but at the very least you can decide how you want to walk through the situation and still be proud of yourself at the end of it. We may not be able to change anything else, but we can always walk away with integrity.

And the great thing is that the creative part of our brain (that shut down in our bad mood) will kick back in so when an opportunity comes up we can see how to make the most out of it. Or when a problem comes up we can look at it and say, “Okay, what’s possible? Here’s who I can work with, how I can work with it, and how I can resolve it or turn it into an opportunity rather than a problem.”

Positive thinking, when it really kicks in, will put us in that glorious place

Think about the passage of time. When we’re stressed out, we’re looking at the clock about every 30 seconds. We think this day cannot go fast enough. “I just want to get home. I just want to be done. I hate this…hate this…hate this!” But, in that positive space, time cruises by. It’s just more fun!

That’s the glorious ripple effect of positive thinking at its very best. The more you focus on the positive, the more positive you become.

You become positive, the world around you becomes positive and happiness is just so naturally there. Dont you agree?

So, what are you gonna focus on? What glorious ripple are you creating today :) 

With Immense Love & Gratitude,
~Zeenat~
Counseling Psychologist/ Spiritual Counselor
Motivational Speaker/Naturopath
Holistic Healer/Writer


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Author: Zeenat Merchant Syal

Counseling Psychologist/ Spiritual Counselor/Motivational Speaker/Naturopath/Holistic Healer/Writer

18 thoughts on “The Glorious Ripple Effect of Positive Thinking

  1. Nice Zeenat,
    This reminds me of the teachings of Abraham/ Ester Hicks on aligning with our true self. Reading your post, I had the image of plugging into the power grid of our being.
    we build happiness ( gratitude, love) by focusing and sharing them.
    To more ripples of happiness, love, gratitude & sustainable living.
    Brad

    • Wonderful insight on how the mind works and how it can definitely work in our favor. I’ve put myself in all your examples and it makes so much sense.

      • Hi Manu,
        So glad you can identify with all the positive life examples I’ve used here! May your life be full of positivity, love and happiness always.
        Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts here. I appreciate it.
        Much Love~

    • HI Brad,
      I agree with your power grid image…we have the power to plug in what we want. When we choose to plug in the right thoughts, the effect is truly glorious any which way we see.
      I love Abraham/Esther hicks’s work! I take thy words as a huge compliment *blushes* :) Thank you!
      Much Love~

  2. Hi Zeenat,

    Great thoughts and perspectives. :-) It can be elusive, this idea of positive thinking. Although I don’t want to put words in your mouth, it seems like you were saying that the invisible is so much stronger than the visible.

    We’re so easily persuaded by the things we can see and measure and those are external motivators and can’t last. When we tap into the invisible inner being that we are underneath, that’s when positive thinking (or being) really starts to take off and those dang ripples become waves!

    Surf’s up!! :-)

    • Hi Carmelo,
      Surfs up dude ! ;)
      And keeping that mood UP all the time can be a daunting task…too many external triggers. I much rather be the trigger of something positive right ;) Our strong inner self when honed in the light of positivity and love can create miraculous ripples for sure.
      Thank you for your surfalicious comment here :)
      Much Love~

  3. Hi Zeenat
    I love this, especially the ripple effect that creates change. The power of being positive in thought as well as action has been paramount for me in my journey to wellness- without thinking positively I might have died or been tied to medical only solutions. Thanks you I started my week in positive mode this has heightened my day already.
    with love and in abundance always, Namaste Suzie xxoo

    • Dear Suzie,
      Youre a beakon of light and your journey inspires me. You are most definately creating positive ripples just by being YOU :)
      May this journey into wellness bring you happiness, health and peace.
      So glad you liked this article and I truly loved the energy your comment shines with.
      Much Love~

  4. When I first read the title,’ripple effect of positive thinking’, I thought it was about how one’s positive attitude influenced another person and so on. But your idea that a positive thought can influence the rest of our day is a wonderful concept! Knowing that we have the power to make our day ‘good’ or ‘bad’ is somehow very freeing. Thank you for a lovely post, Zeenat!!

    • HI Fab!
      Its amazing when we can truly realize our own potential..right :) And yes, we do have the power to make our day positive and overall good.
      So glad you liked this post. Am happy to read your comment here. Thank you!
      Much Love~

  5. Very well said, Zeenat. All we need is that slight shift in perspective – I sometimes think of it as wiping the driving mirror in a dusty area, to see something that wasn’t visible before – positivity.

    I believe in positive – it is powerful. It also keeps us sane and serene.

    Thanks! Love, Vidya

    • Hi Vidya,
      Love that metaphor of wiping the dusty area of a mirror…makes perfect sense.
      Clarity comes from positivity and so does happiness!
      Thank you for your lovely comment here.
      Much Love~

  6. Perfect timing, Zeenat ! I SO needed to hear your words of wisdom. Thanks for throwing out your life line of advice!

    • Hi Kim,
      Lovely seeing your lovely comment here. I’m happy this post came to you just when you needed it.
      May you remain always positively inclined.
      Much Love~

  7. Very nice! That simple change in thought has made a profound difference in my life. So much more than I ever could have imagines! And noticing the same make of car after you buy one, was one of my first clues to the whole ‘What you think about, you see.’
    Thank You

    • Hi Nay,
      I’m so happy that positive thinking has made such a huge impact on your life.
      So glad you liked this article and the examples in it.
      Thank you for your lovely comment here.
      Much love~

  8. Zeenat, until I read this, it really had not dawned on me that a mood has a rippling effect the way you described it. I do know, however, that there really are no bad days, just bad moments.

  9. Dear Zeenat,
    You are a treasure. I absolutely positively agree with your excellent advice. I was recently having a bad day and so were others who were in the same meeting with me. We were bogged down in negativity and seeing no way out. I suggested we take a long lunch together and not to speak of the matters of the meeting but simply eat and socialize.

    I deliberately used that time to spread as much good cheer as I could. Within 5 minutes my positive comments stimulated positive comments from others. The ripple effect was in action and when we convened our meeting again there was a positive tone set. By the end of the day we had solutions that everyone could live with and most could wholeheartedly support.

    Toss a love bomb into any negative situation and expect positive reverberations.

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