How to lovingly support someone who is experiencing Hopelessness and Depression

‘Dare to reach out your hand into the darkness, to pull another hand into the light.’  ~Norman B. Rice

If you have a friend or loved one who is experiencing hopelessness or depression, it can be difficult to know exactly what to say or do. While there isn’t any one magic thing to say that will alleviate their pain, there are many ways to offer support.

‘Never worry about numbers.  Help one person at a time, and always start with the person nearest you.’  ~Mother Teresa

The best way to offer help is to listen, validate their experience, and provide acceptance. By offering this type of support, you can help put things into a more balanced perspective. In addition, your offer of companionship lets them know that they are not completely alone. They have someone with them even as they attempt to find their ways through a very difficult and dark period. Continue reading

Refresh Renew Rebirth

The world is new to us every morning – this is a Divine gift, if we can see it. Every human being should believe he is reborn each day.

Do you believe you can be Reborn every new morning? Do you wish you could be reborn with a clean slate to fill as you Now please, wiping off all the past mistakes and scars? Honestly, who doesnt?

Well, your wishes can and will come true. Cause being reborn, the truest rebirth of YOU in this lifetime is simply possible. How? Well read on to find out. Continue reading

Go Fly Little Girl – The Girl Effect

Give a girl an education and introduce her properly into the world, and ten to one but she has the means of settling well, without further expense to anybody. ~Jane Austen

When it comes to being a girl, I was fortunate enough to be treated like a precious creature. From the time I can remember, my dad always told me, I was more a boy to him than my two other brothers. At the time I never really understood this statement. But, when he said the same thing to me on my 18th birthday, he added “You are more capable than any man you will ever meet. You make me proud to have a girl like you. You have the innocence of a little girl and the sensibility of a lady. Go fly my little girl.” Continue reading

The Best Day Of Your Life!

“Quality begins on the inside… and then works its way out.”~ Bob Moawad ~

An Interview: What is the first thought that goes through your mind when you wake up in the morning? “Thought…what thought?? I’d be lucky to think about anything till I get my coffee/tea!” Hmmm….so what thoughts do you take with you as you leave the bed for the day? “Listen missy, I have enough thinking to do at work, to do it as soon as I get up too.Just let me be ok! ” Opps…it seems like I have offended my lazy mind self :( Continue reading

One Huge Mistake, One Major Life Lesson

“Even the knowledge of my own fallibility cannot keep me from making mistakes. Only when I fall do I get up again.”- Vincent van Gogh

As I sit to type this post on life lessons, I cant help but think about all the mistakes I made to come across these life lessons. Had it not been for my mistakes, I probably would never have learned what I know now. And if I dont allow myself the freedom to err, how will I be open to more life lessons? Continue reading

The Secret to an Unwavering Positive Outlook

Often I get asked this question: “How come you’re always so positive about everything? Dont you ever get down?”

Hmm..what do you think? Am I not a thinking and feeling human(e) being? Ofcourse, I am. So its only natural that I do feel down, sometimes. I do get upset, sometimes. I do get agitated sometimes too. But, does that stop me from thinking positively about the situation at hand> NO! Continue reading