Special Note: This is a guest post by an awesome writer Vern from yoexpert.com
There are some questions that never need to hear the answer no.
Imagine what your life would be like if you always said yes. If you accepted every invitation, dared to enjoy every adventure and chose to be friends with strangers. Of course, this could put you in some risky positions but it could also make your life a whole lot more interesting. There are surely questions that should be answered with a resounding no. However there are many more questions that can be answered with a definitive yes.
Here is a look at five questions that you should dare to always answer yes to:
1.Should we do something different?
The best way to make your life more interesting is to take advantage of the opportunity to do something different whenever it presents itself.
When your hairstylist asks if you want to try a bold new cut or color, say yes. When your husband suggests trying a new restaurant for dinner, say yes. When your daughter asks if you can go on vacation to a place that you’ve never been instead of taking the same old family trip to see Grandma, say yes.
The worst thing that is going to happen is that you’ll know not to do it again. The best thing that can happen is that a world of new experiences will open up to you.
2.Do you like what you do with your day?
It is very important that you can answer yes to this question if you want to have a happy life. Of course, you may not love the type of work that you’re doing right now. You may not enjoy the day-to-day chores of your house. But you should be able to infuse enough positivity into your every day life to always be able to answer “yes”, to always be able to say that you generally like the way that you spend your time.
3.Are you successful?
We are all successful at something. Figuring out what that is and being able to explain it clearly to someone else is a powerful thing. It gives us confidence. It allows us to be proud of ourselves. It reminds us that we are good at something and that gives us the inner strength that we need to keep taking risks on trying new things.
4.Can I… ?
Negative self talk is the most damaging thing in anyone’s life. We often tell ourselves that we can’t do something, preventing the experience of finding out what we do and do not enjoy in life. Anytime that you find yourself asking, “Can I really do this?” you want to answer yes. Say yes even if you don’t believe it yet – you will eventually believe it!
5.Do you love yourself?
This is probably one of the most important questions that you will want to answer yes to. If you live your life the way that you want while always following your heart and your core values, then the answer to this question will always be yes!
About the Author: Vern is an expert on a variety of topics including healthy living and relationship issues. He’s also a writer on a new expert advice site, answering questions with his knowledge in a variety of topics. You can follow him on Twitter.
With Immense Love and Gratitude,
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