Imagine yourself sitting beside a campfire….
As the flames dance against the night sky, people arrive and depart throughout the evening. Some linger only briefly before continuing their journey. Others remain for hours, sharing stories, laughter, and quiet moments of connection. A few stay until the final embers glow softly beneath the ashes.
You would never look at the fire and conclude that its warmth had diminished simply because someone chose to leave. You understand instinctively that each person is responding to the rhythm of their own life. Their departure says more about their path than it does about the fire itself.
Our relationships unfold in much the same way.
Yet many of us carry an unconscious belief that every ending is evidence of inadequacy. When a friendship fades, we search ourselves for flaws. We replay conversations, question our worth, and quietly wonder whether we were enough.
This response is deeply human, but not always truthful.
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