Spiritual Imbalance: Ancient African Wisdom and the Psychology of Trauma

I’ve been in the healing field for more than two decades now, and there is still always something that I can come across that absolutely leaves me in awe. I’ve studied all the mental and spiritual health modalities under the sun and still continue to do so.

My research always sends me down a deep path with amazing revelations. I’ve been doing a lot of work, research and courses on healing trauma behind the scenes.

I wanted to share with you what I have learned…I’m sure it will enlighten you as it continues to enlighten me.

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14 Subtle Signs Your Body Is Starting to Heal from Trauma (And Why They Matter)

“You have the power to heal yourself, and you need to know that. We think so often that we are helpless, but we’re not. We always have the power of our minds. Claim and consciously use your power.” ~ Louise Hay

Your body doesn’t heal in one dramatic moment of clarity. Healing doesn’t arrive like a thunderclap or a single breakthrough or happen overnight. It unfolds gently, often invisibly through small, surprising shifts.

My own healing journey has been in progress daily since 1999 in the most surprising ways.

It shows up in the quiet, fragmented moments. It’s in those moments that my nervous system finally started to feel safe… safe enough to let go.

And that safety doesn’t come from logic—it comes from felt experience.

It showed up like this for me:

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12 Powerful Ways to Reclaim Your Peace When You Can’t Change Others

“If you don’t like something, change it. If you can’t change it, change your attitude.” ~ Maya Angelou

If there is one massive life lesson I have learnt over the years, it is that I can not control or change anyone, anything, or any situation. And trying to do so only hurts me and no one else. Hence, I stopped trying to change or control what is outside of me.

The truth of the matter is, that everything outside of you is never ever going to be in your control. If the traffic is bad, it is bad. You have no choice but to wait for it start moving. No sense in getting angry or hyperventilating over a fact you cannot change. So instead of getting angry or upset, its best to accept this fact and do something to calm your mind in that moment. Whenever I’m stuck in traffic, I people watch, I nature watch. I look out of the window in awe and admire the many wonders that the Divine has created. That’s so much better than hyperventilating! Right?!

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