What If You Fly? Releasing the Fear Behind Life’s Big Decisions

“What if I fall?” Oh but my darling, What if you fly? ~ Eric Hanson

Do you have decision overload and end up doing nothing?

It’s easy to feel a bit lost when the next step in your life plan feels so overwhelming that you freeze up and procrastinate… Which is your brains reaction to a perceived threat.

I see this particularly in younger clients who feel there are certain hoops they need to jump through in order for the next chapter in their lives to begin.

They have to meet THE partner or establish the RIGHT career before STARTING a family or AFFORDING a house in the right area to be close to the RIGHT school… exhausting and also frightening as the constant backdrop is ‘what if I fail.’

It can create analysis paralysis meaning it is impossible to make any decisions as the fear of getting it wrong is so huge.

What if you could think of decisions differently, more positively?

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Get out of Clue Clue Land and Decide to Be YOU

“It’s choice – not chance – that determines your destiny.”~Jean Nidetch~

I remember when I was about 8 years old and loved playing with my Barbie doll sets, if anyone asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up, I said a Barbie doll. And why? Because my Barbie has such beautiful things. Then when I was 12 yrs old, I was crazy about painting and wanted to be a Painter. At 13 it was an astronaut, at 15 it was a teacher, at 16 it was a doctor and at 18 well I just wanted to be left the hell alone!!

The point to all this is, we are constantly asked by everyone around – What do you want to be when you grow up??? Continue reading “Get out of Clue Clue Land and Decide to Be YOU”