Happiness is a choice. Choose happy.
There are many souls I know, who are rarely effected by mood swings. It’s the most incredible thing to behold! They are honestly the most balanced, joyful, and happiest people I have ever met. Sure, they can get upset, angry, or disillusioned just like the rest of us, but overall their mood is light-filled and loving. I absolutely adore this abundant laugher and overflowing joy that is part of their nature.
As for me, I love life! But… I feel everything – even those feelings that don’t originate from me. Overall, that’s a good thing. It provides a deep and rich awareness, understanding, and empathy of life, other people, and myself. However, sometimes those feelings are intense and sometimes they get stuck inside. A lifetime of living with this heightened sense of emotional awareness has allowed me to become an expert in how to move those more difficult emotions up and out.
Are you moody often?
If you often feel moody or down in the dumps perhaps that is just part of the way you are built. Instead of tolerating your moods, maybe it’s time you also became an expert in positive personal mood management. If you are having trouble feeling happy, try these tips. When you find something that works, add it to your emotional well-being toolbox. Then next time you want to move from sad to glad, open your toolbox, dig around, and put one or more of your tools into action.
6 Positive tools to go from Super Sad to Super Duper Glad
1. Go ahead – worry.
Allow yourself 15 minutes of worry time. Get out your journal and write it all down. Your journal can be an incredible tool to validate the importance of what you feel. Express your emotions, feel your feelings, and let it all out. Write out the big sloppy, messy misery that you are experiencing. Communicate your concerns. Then once it’s all out, set aside your journal and move on to an activity that will bring some positive energy into your life.
2. Walk it off.
Research shows that walking is great way to de-stress. Not only does a walk get your energy flowing, it also helps you breathe more deeply. Breathing can disrupt the internal stress-building loop where stressful feelings lead to negative thoughts that lead to stressful energy. Breathing interrupts the common tendency that we have to ruminate or become absorbed with our thoughts and feelings when we are upset. Breathing opens up your body, helps emotions flow, and helps us come back to our own inner core of peace.
3. Rub it in.
Enjoying a 20 minute massage once or twice a week has been shown to lower stress and anxiety. Plus, massage is a great way to connect with your body in a positive, loving way. Human touch in the form of massage can allow you to relax, unwind, reduce your stress hormones, and increase brain relaxation. It certainly can’t hurt and it can make you feel better. The best part, you can give yourself a nice foot massage(with a light moisturizing cream) to begin with every night.
4. Laugh it up.
If you can’t cry, then try laughing. It can be just as effective as tears to move out some of those dark, heavy, moody energies. Laughter also increases the release of endorphins – brain chemicals that give you a sense of emotional well-being. Rent a funny movie, call up your comical friend, or check out the comedy channel on television or your satellite radio. Here’s a little funny joke to get you started: TEACHER : What a pair of strange socks you’re wearing, one is green and the other is blue with red spots !! STUDENT: Yes, it’s really strange. I’ve got another pair just like that at home. 😉
5. Create the official “50 things I love” list.
Sit down and create a list of 50 things you love. Maybe your list includes a favorite movie, making up silly poetry, a messy pizza, and gardening. When you are feeling down, you can look at all the things you love about life. Then actively engage yourself in one or two of the items on your list, even if you think you won’t enjoy yourself. Find an item that makes you laugh, boosts your self-esteem, or revitalizes your mood. You might be faking it at first, but as you take an intentional action to nurture yourself, your brain will respond by releasing feel good hormones.
6. Food and mood.
What you eat can affect your mood. If you haven’t eaten in a few hours, or you’ve only eaten a sugary cereal or doughnut for breakfast, your blood sugar could be plummeting. Low blood sugar equals a low mood. Instead of reaching for a quick fix candy bar, reach for a meal that’s loaded with protein that can increase alertness and energy, and complex carbohydrates that can provide a level blood sugar balance. High protein foods include fish, poultry, meat, and eggs. If you can’t eat those, try legumes, cheese, milk, yogurt, or tofu. Healthy complex carbohydrate foods include whole grain breads and cereals, whole grain pasta or rice, oatmeal, fruits, and vegetables. Eat good to feel good 🙂
7. Drink Up the H2O!
Drink water, water, and more water! One of the first signs of dehydration is a mood swing. Drinking more water could be the easiest way to lighten your mood, sharpen your thoughts, and feel better quickly. In part, that’s because your brain needs water to function at its highest capacity. Re-hydrating allows the natural brain chemicals to do their job. Want to be less moody, then please drink lots of water. Juices are great too, but not the sugary kind. All natural is always best.
8. Clean your house, clear your mood.
A clean house, or closet, or desk can lift your spirits. Being surrounded by clutter can cause you to feel overwhelmed, stuck, and stressed. It can kill your energy and leave you feeling down and unmotivated. Get a feel for where you would get the most bang for your buck. Cleaning the toilet might not do much to increase your enthusiasm, but putting away your laundry and then clearing out your closet might just be what the doctor ordered. Once your clutter clearing is complete, sit back, breathe, and enjoy all the new energy that is available to you.
Learning to lift your mood can seem impossible at times, but there are ways to help yourself feel better. Experiment with the tips above and discover what lifts the moodiness out of you. Spending some time figuring out how to release a sad mood will payoff big time to give you a more fun and fulfilling life.
And we all want FUN and FULFILLING right ?? 🙂
With Immense Love & Gratitude,
Counseling Psychologist/ Spiritual Counselor
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Love the Positivity here Zeenat…..it’s positively catching. Thankyou.
be good to yourself
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Today in The States was Father’s Day. I was treated to a picnic at Balboa Park
Also we viewed The Titanic exhibit displayed in our Natural History Museum.
The exhibit is a very poignant reminder of the ‘highs’ and ‘lows’ of life. Biographically illustrated was a selection of the First, Second, and Third Class passengers. Lives revealed also by displaying personal items found 12,000 feet below on the ocean floor.
On the opulent First Class Level more than one wealthy industrialist had a broken marriage and was traveling with a mistress:
Proverbs 14:13 “Even in laughter the heart may be in pain, and the end of joy may be grief.”
One Hundred years later the disaster remains a startling example of how the ‘moods’ and lives of
First – Second – Third Class ‘People’
can change instantly with a brush of fate.
Ecclesiastes 7:3 “Sorrow is better than laughter, for when a face is sad a heart may be happy.”
To be alive…
Hi Z ~ I had no idea that a mood swing is one of the first signs of dehydration. That is very useful to know. Love all the practical information and tips in this article.
Beautiful article and great suggestions, Zeenat. I can totally relate.
Like many people, I get the blues a little after the Christmas season. I combat this feeling by doing my spring housecleaning. Doing spring housecleaning in January may seem awful early but with modern conveniences one doesn’t need nice days outside to get this done.
Positively perfect tips Zeenat ~ #8 might be unusual for some, but for myself, if my house isn’t harmonious it seems I’m not either!
This is fabulous. I love “rub it off” and “walk it off!”
Good tips & reminders Zeenat,
And fun names like rub it off. I’m going to try the list of 50 things to fall back on. Great idea. Currently I use water & movement most of the time. Dance if fun when I remember.
I thoroughly enjoyed reading your post dear Zeenat. Lovely! I can definitely relate with some of the suggestions you mentioned.
Indeed happiness is a choice and the world would surely be a better place if we all choose to be happy……Your post acted as a reminder, thanks!
Loads of love!!
Always love a positive thought post! And you have many great ideas. My husband and I always get the other moving if we’re having a bad day. That always makes you feel better. I love that you allow your reader to worry! It’s important to acknowledge it before you move on.
🙂 Lovely read. I believe in all of these and have enjoyed writing about them too. Laughing is really the best – brightens up the entire mood!
Zeenat…as always, you life up and inspire…I smiled as I read it! xxoo-Fran
Zeenat I’m so happy I found your blog. I love and feel your positive energy. I will definitely add reading your blog to my morning regime. Keep the positive energy going – I will surely pass this along. 💓😁
Lovely seeing a new lovely soul here 🙂 Welcome! May you be positively inspired everyday. I do hope to see more of you and your lovely thoughts here.
Thank you for stopping by and sharing your thoughts here.
Thank you all for your loving comments here. I have read each one and loved them even more. I was away from the blog for a couple of days due to too much work and too little time 🙂 I suppose I need to take my own advice and relax a bit 😉
A new email course is also what I was working on while I was working….more on that in the New post 🙂
Thank you again for being here and sharing your amazing selves here. I appreciate you!
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